Krystal Barschig

Do you ever wonder, “Am I doing this right?” About anything? Maybe some days about everything?

As someone who asks this question on a regular basis in regards to just about every aspect of her life, I can share that even when I’m feeling connected, aligned, and confident, this inquiry does not completely vanish from my mind. This question is still asked, but I know where to turn for the answer. I turn inward. I hear very clearly. And then I proceed without doubt, with full faith.

Conversely, when I’m feeling disconnected from myself, lost, and consequently most insecure, the volume on this “Am I doing this right?” radio channel is cranked up. Meanwhile, my internal voice is muffled by all the static and chatter, and I can’t hear or make it out very well. Or I’m so distracted and caught up that I forget to even try to listen for it. Or I hear it, but then go through this whole process of doubting and eventually discrediting it. Or worst of all, I look outward and ask: “Am I doing this right?!” And apparently in this insecure and fearful state I lose ALL discernment and will accept as Truth the first answer from the first person who responds to my call, no matter their lack of qualifications.

But today I am saying, “Enough!” Today I am practicing looking inward, listening, trusting, and obeying my infinitely wise Self. Today I am remembering and connecting to the deep love and respect I have for myself.

We already have within us everything we need — not only all the answers, but also divinity. Divine — within each of us! Talk about a boost of confidence! We can choose to re-direct our efforts and attention from an external search for validation and instead toward uncovering and getting closer to that Divine part of ourselves. We are already connected, we are already integrated and one with the Truth, with this thing which is bigger and more constant than us and supports each of us in being our fullest, truest Self.

Oh and hey, while we’re at it, let’s throw out this idea of Rightness altogether, shall we? There is no “Right,” there is just right for you in each specific moment.

We don’t get a score when all is said and done; we get a uniquely lived life. The purpose of a life is to grow a soul.